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Do you believe no one could possible understand how you feel?
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Do you cover up your real feelings by pretending you don't care?
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Do you feel nobody really loves you or cares what happens to you?
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Do you tell lies to cover up for someone else's drinking or what's happening in your home?
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Do you stay out of the house as much as possible because you hate it there?
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Are you afraid or embarrassed to bring your friends home?
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Has someone's drinking upset you?
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Are holidays and gatherings spoiled because of drinking or others' reactions to the drinking?
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Are you afraid to speak up sometimes for fear it will set off a drinking bout or start another fight?
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Do you think the drinker's behavior is caused by you, other members of your family, friends, or rotten breaks in life?
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Do you make threats such as, "If you don't stop drinking and fighting, I'll run away"?
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Do you make promises about behavior, such as, "I'll get better grades," "go to church," or "keep my room clean" in exchange for a promise that the drinking will stop?
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Do you feel that if your mom or dad loved you, she or he would stop drinking?
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Do you ever threaten or actually hurt yourself to scare your parents into saying "I'm sorry," or "I love you"?
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Do you or your family have money problems because of someone else's drinking?
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Are mealtimes frequently stressful or delayed because of drinking or fighting?
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Have you considered calling the police because of the abusive behavior in your home?
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Have you refused dates because your date may find out about the drinking or fighting?
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Do you think your problems would be solved if the drinking stopped?
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Do you ever treat people (teachers, schoolmates, teammates, etc.) unjustly because you are angry at someone else for drinking too much?
